LESSON 4

 

Character vs. Personality

Part 2

 

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King David

 

Saul was rejected by God.  Saul lost his kingdom because he didn't have the character to handle the power and authority.  Saul went from a nobody to a king in a very short period of time.

 

 Quick exaltation almost always leads to self destruction!!!

 

I Tim. 3:2,6 A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach; ...Not a novice, lest being lifted up with pride he fall into the condemnation of the devil.

 

This is what happened to Saul.  He lacked the character to handle the pressures of being in authority.  He was a novice.

 

David on the other hand was called because of his heart, not his abilities.  Before he realized the calling on his life and became king, he allowed the character of God to be formed in his life.  He was not a novice.

 

I Sam. 16:6-7  And it came to pass, when they were come, that he looked on Eliab, and said, Surely the LORD'S anointed [is] before Him. But the LORD said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature; because I have refused him: for [the LORD seeth] not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the LORD looketh on the heart.

 

I Sam. 16:12-13 And he sent, and brought him in. Now he [was] ruddy, [and] withal of a beautiful countenance, and goodly to look to. And the LORD said, Arise, anoint him: for this [is] he.  Then Samuel took the horn of oil, and anointed him in the midst of his brethren: and the spirit of the LORD came upon David from that day forward. So Samuel rose up, and went to Ramah.

 

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David was the youngest, the least of his family.  His family looked on him so lowly, as to not even consider him when Samuel asked for the sons of Jesse.  They left him to tend the sheep.

 

David was called and anointed to be king of Israel that day, although the realization of his call wouldn't come for some 16 to 17 years.

 

David had a pure heart; Now God was going to refine it so that David could handle the test of success.

 

Personality can come overnight, but character takes TIME.

 

There are things in your life that you can only learn through experience.  Even Jesus learned this way.

 

Heb. 5:8 Though He were a Son, yet learned He obedience by the things which He suffered.

 

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David learned total SURRENDER to God through the things he suffered at the hand of Saul.  In the midst of his afflictions, he learned what it is to walk with God.

 

We will also learn through the things we will suffer.  But praise God!  He will be there to see us through them and give us peace.

 

Psa. 34:4 I sought the LORD, and he heard me, and delivered me from all my fears.

 

Psa. 34:6 This poor man cried, and the LORD heard [him], and saved him out of all his troubles.

 

Psa. 35:10 All my bones shall say, LORD, who [is] like unto thee, which deliverest the poor from him that is too strong for him, yea, the poor and the needy from him that spoileth him?

 

When you stand strong as a person of character, God will meet you right there.  He will deliver you from those who are strong and try to take from you.  He will restore back to you everything they try to take.

 

Psa. 91:1-7 He that dwelleth in the secret place of  the most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty. I will say of the LORD, [He is] my refuge and my fortress: my God; in him will I trust.  Surely he shall deliver thee from the snare of the fowler, [and] from the noisome pestilence. He shall cover thee with his feathers, and under his wings shalt thou trust: his truth [shall be thy] shield and buckler.  Thou shalt not be afraid for the terror by night; [nor] for the arrow [that] flieth by day; [Nor] for the pestilence [that] walketh in darkness; [nor] for the destruction [that] wasteth at noonday.  A thousand shall fall at thy side, and ten thousand at thy right hand; [but] it shall not come nigh thee.

 

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You will not learn this place of the protection of God, until you become a man or woman of God, who will not be swayed by what the world says or by fear, but choose to obey the Word of God.

 

Psa. 91:14-16 Because he hath set his love upon me, therefore will I deliver him: I will set him on high, because he hath known my name. He shall call upon me, and I will answer him: I [will be] with him in trouble; I will deliver him, and honour him.  With long life will I satisfy him, and shew him my salvation.

 

It is through trials and tribulations that much of the nature of Christ will be formed in your life.

 

II Cor. 4:7 But we have this treasure in earthen vessels, that the excellency of the power may be of God, and not of us. [We are] troubled on every side, yet not distressed; [we are] perplexed, but not in despair; Persecuted, but not forsaken; cast down, but not destroyed; Always bearing about in the body the dying of the Lord Jesus, that the life also of Jesus might be made manifest in our body.

 

Jam. 1:2 My brethren, count it all joy when ye fall into divers temptations; Knowing [this], that the trying of your faith worketh patience.  But let patience have [her] perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing.

 

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David and Saul are examples of the right and wrong  way to move into leadership.  David took the time to allow God to build in him depth of character.  Saul was suddenly plunged into leadership and the end result is only too well known.

 

We are to learn from this example.

 

 DON'T SEEK QUICK EXALTATION, SEEK TRUE CHARACTER TRANSFORMATION

 

Let God build in you true spiritual character so that you can be that child of God who lasts.

 

In Review:

1.  Complete this sentence. 

Quick ______________________ almost always leads to self ______________________.

2.  Why was King David called?  ____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

3.  How long did David wait to be king from the time he was anointed?  __________________________________________________________________

4.  Complete these sentences.  ______________________ can come overnight, but ____________________

takes time.

The nature of Christ will be formed in your life as you go through __________

and _______________________.

 

 

5.  What were some of the differences between King Saul and King David?  ________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

6. What did you learn from these two examples of leadership?  __________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________